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Why Are People With A Higher Salary Unhappy? Future IQ

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  1. Social Comparison mechanism

    Social comparison supplies the reference point that turns circumstances into satisfaction or disappointment. Upward comparison can guide ambition, but curated or hypothetical benchmarks can make a good life feel like failure.

  2. Maximizing mental-model

    Maximizing can improve the outcome you obtain while worsening how that outcome feels. Searching for the best keeps shifting your reference point toward superior possibilities, so gains become reminders of what you missed.

  3. Regret Sensitivity mechanism

    Regret sensitivity turns rejected options into recurring counterfactuals: after choosing, you keep imagining that another path might have produced a better result. The task is not to eliminate regret, but to choose the trade-off explicitly and stop mistaking unrealized possibilities for evidence.

  4. Opportunity Cost principle

    Opportunity cost is the value of the best alternative a choice displaces—including time, attention, and mental peace. A visible gain is worthwhile only when it exceeds that hidden loss.

  5. Epsilon-Optimal Decision Making mental-model

    An epsilon-optimal decision accepts any option close enough to the best that the remaining difference does not justify further search. “Good enough” is a deliberately high standard that preserves attention, time, and momentum.

  6. Satisficing mental-model

    Satisficing means setting a meaningful threshold and choosing the first option that clears it when further search is likely to cost more in time and stress than it returns in improvement. It replaces the impossible demand for the best with a deliberate definition of enough.

  7. Threshold and Lottery Selection mechanism

    Past a genuine competence cutoff, small score differences may carry too little useful signal to justify ranking lives by them. A threshold-plus-lottery secures minimum capability while refusing to treat noisy distinctions as destiny.

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There are two types of people: Maximizers and Satisficers. Maximizers always try to get the very best, like the highest salary or the perfect job, but it might make them unhappy and stressed. Satisficers, on the other hand, are okay with good enough and feel happier because they don’t stress about being perfect. We’ll show you how making better choices can help you feel more satisfied with life! More Videos For You: Opportunity Cost: https://youtu.be/fgtiC6RkRwg Jeff Bezos Decision Making: https://youtu.be/aQg7dAJWqyk The Science Of Being Happy: https://youtu.be/reYUf2nkcQg Easy Life Will Lead To Failure: https://youtu.be/2T1lADkGtZY Hope you enjoyed FutureIQ by Navin Kabra and Shrikant Joshi. Do hit us up on Twitter: @ngkabra http://twitter.com/ngkabra @shrikant https://twitter.com/shrikant Listen it on the podcast provider of your choice: https://tapthe.link/FutureIQRSS Sources: Find out if you're a maximizer of satisficer: https://pierrettedesrosiers.com/documents/QUEST_maximization_scale_JG_001.pdf Maximizing Versus Satisficing: Happiness Is a Matter of Choice: https://sonjalyubomirsky.com/wp-content/themes/sonjalyubomirsky/papers/SWMLWL2002.pdf https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1467-9280.2006.01677.x: Students with maximizing tendencies got jobs with 20% higher starting salary, but https://sonjalyubomirsky.com/wp-content/themes/sonjalyubomirsky/papers/SWMLWL2002.pdf: were less satisfied with the job they got (and were less happy during the entire job search) Replace JEE with a Lottery: https://www.nitinpai.in/2023/08/21/replace-jee-with-a-lottery-for-iit-admissions Why we should run elite college admissions like a lottery : https://www.vox.com/future-perfect/2023/4/19/23689402/college-admissions-lottery-ivy-league Psychology Today Article: https://pierrettedesrosiers.com/documents/QUEST_maximization_scale_JG_001.pdf Good enough parenting: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Good_enough_parent Are you maximizing or satisficing in your relationship: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/between-you-and-me/202109/are-you-satisficing-or-maximizing-in-your-relationship Do 'maximisers' or 'satisficers' make better decisions: https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20210329-do-maximisers-or-satisficers-make-better-decisions 00:00 Higher salary is BAD for you 01:02 How can wanting more be a bad thing? 03:05 Be satisfied is settling for less? 05:08 Be aware but not stressed 05:30 Are you maximizer or satisficer? 06:38 Best advice 08:21 Examples in daily life 14:00 When to Maximize or Satisfice? #futureiq #maximizinglife #satisficing

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