Maximizing

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Maximizing can improve the outcome you obtain while worsening how that outcome feels. Searching for the best keeps shifting your reference point toward superior possibilities, so gains become reminders of what you missed.

The people who searched hardest for the best job ended up earning 20% more—and feeling less satisfied with what they got.

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The search upgrades the benchmark

A maximizer evaluates an option against the best imaginable alternative, not merely against their needs or their previous position. More searching may uncover a better salary, but it also reveals more attractive possibilities. Once those possibilities become the reference point, the chosen job is judged beside the best job not obtained. The strategy therefore moves two variables in opposite directions: objective reward can rise while subjective wellbeing falls. This is the trap behind Social Comparison: success feels insufficient when the comparison set improves faster than the result.

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Higher standards still buy something

Maximizing is not simply irrational: in the supplied case, it produced substantially higher salaries. The problem was not the better outcome itself but evaluating it against the best missed alternative. Where the stakes justify an exhaustive search—and the result can be assessed without persistent counterfactual comparison—maximizing may still be worth its cost.

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Freeze the finish line before searching

Before your next job search, write down the salary, role conditions, and growth prospects that would make an offer genuinely acceptable. Decide in advance which one or two dimensions deserve optimization; once an offer clears the rest of your thresholds, judge it against that written standard rather than against every hypothetical vacancy. That turns Maximizing vs Satisficing into a decision rule instead of a personality label.

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